I think about suicide but I would never do it because I know no one would care.
Do I need help or is this a normal thought process for a person going through depression ?
Sometime I think about suicide but I would never do it do I need help ?
well, suicide is not good and neither is depression
but im sure people would care if you died...don't ever think no one cares
maybe you should go see a councellor or a psychologist or something
Reply:I don't think so 'cuase I don't need help either. What we need is look at thing in positive way and never lets those depression get to our mind. The first person that closes to you is yourself, the first person who can help you is yourself, so, we will survive.
Reply:You said a few words that if put together can really cause you some problems. If you feel as though your life is so valueless that no one would care-so you don't feel loved. If you are seriously depressed to gether with the above feeling, I would say get help as soon as you can. The better part of your words tell me you should get away from people whom doesn,t care if you live or die. Accept the love God sends to you and stop letting those whom you care about and find a loving extended relationship and be free in your mind heart and soul, I trully care if you die by your own hands,
Get help from a minister or counselor. Please live life to the fullest,
have faith and believe you are somebody special,
Reply:Then never do it, I had always thought of it too. I realized that it would be all in vain. It is a very selfish action. I did not care how others would feel. At least there will rise some confusions and it will never encourage others who has the same similar problems. I realized we are not the only ones who feel this weary thing inside of us..But if I do it, maybe some others might do the same thing too. It is not also good for all those people who really care, that we even thought of nobody cares at all.
I am also a weary soul, but I have gained spirit with a little cheery voice in my heart. I believe it is a voice from heaven. My seeking of reality of beauty in life will only slow the proccess if I'd be silly to do such thing. I had prepared for that purpose and I am now of loving and serving those people who really need me specially my children. I realized I have to fight for a cause not only for myself but for others too..
So think..and try to be brave. Blessings to you!
You need help and more love..
Reply:Everybody thinks about killing themselves once in a while, not because they'd actualy want to do it but only because, yes, they're depressed and somehow wants to escape their predicament. Now, if it becomes serious like if you start detailing and planning how you'd do it, you should consider help from a counselor or therapist.
Reply:i'm also like that but i don't..cause it's too painful, maybe you won't die too after that happen..i just thought of it..i prefer to die without experiencing pain before..
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Reply:The fact that you don't think anyone would care suggests it's not normal. And if your going through depression anyway, you should really seek help. If nothing else, how about getting in contact with the Samartians? They listen and it's all confidentual and sometimes it just helps to share things?
Suicide is not, and never is, the answer. And I'm so very sure people would care I'll eat my hair if I'm wrong.
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